Do We Hate Each Other?

BunnyTroublez 01-01-2005

Ummmmm me having to deal with 2 friends with man trouble and one guy friend with female trouble made me think of this subject.

Do we hate each other? Meaning men and women.

Those of u who have a somebody currtently, step out of that for a sec and think to before u had that someone and what your frame of mind was. Because if u get a bunch of women in a room and men in another, we will say things that we probably would not say to our current partners.

Why do we complain about the same things?
Why do we think one side is better than the other?
Why do we generalize?
What kind of message are we sending to the other side?
Why are we afraid to be honest with ourseleves, or own sex or the oppisite sex.?
Why are we afraid of people being real with us
Why do we say we want real people but are not real with our self?
Is it all just pain?
Are we a bunch of never get over shit people?
Is it even possible for us to move on from this way of thinking?

You dont have to answer everything, its just stuff i think about. Its hard to change, especially the way u think. I am finding it extremly hard to do it now. Because you tend to wanna do whatever to keep u out of harms way, but what if what we are doing is putting us in more trouble?

Wyntre

Why do we complain about the same things? Cuz most people have nothing better to do than blame others, especially their partners or the opposite sex for their fuck ups.
Why do we think one side is better than the other? People often confuse differences with the oppsoite sex as a way to classify or categorize.
Why do we generalize? Generalization is another way for people rationalize their choices and differences between eachother.
What kind of message are we sending to the other side? Both sides try to compete with strength and intellect, both men and women are full of shit.
Why are we afraid to be honest with ourseleves, or own sex or the oppisite sex.? Honesty is a wide open door to the inter workings of a persons most precious feelings and thoughts. I don't think anyone trusts that easily.
Why are we afraid of people being real with us? Truth hurts
Why do we say we want real people but are not real with our self? Sub concious hypocrisy... most people suffer from it.
Is it all just pain? Not pain... more like the fear of it!
Are we a bunch of never get over shit people? Pretty much. Sexes hold grudges on people and stereotype based on other's mistakes.
Is it even possible for us to move on from this way of thinking? I doubt it. There has been stereotyping since b.c. and even though women adn men have proven over time that you can't classify all of their sexes, (lesbians, gays, house dads and working moms, etc...) there will always be a majority ruling on the pride of their own sex!

ridenlow84

there she goes again i told yall she was a lil wise person love you Crystal

Wyntre

, lil wise person huh Silly

Nina

[Good topic, Moving to XPRESSiN Front page]

As far as my answer. Most of the questions can be answered by this = human nature.

I don't agree with it but everyone does it, its always our first response but that's all it is, just a response. It doesn't have to be our reaction to it.