Jealousy - Possesiveness - Controlling

Sunisa 06-17-2003

Ever been in a relationship with someone, you find out that they are really possessive or jealuos or controling over you? Did you like it, or didn't mind it that much or just got annoying? Tell us how you felt.

Precious

ummm i was with a guy that was really jealous and i liked it in a way but then again
it got out of hand....but I mean i didnt mind at the beginning but then it was just
bullshit....but i mean you do learn a lot from those relationships

Kittykat

yes i was with a jealous and controlling guy. at first it was all good, then it got worse after 2 mos. he told me , thta i cant have or even look at other guys. i was like this is bullshit, ur done. and he got so mad, that he tried to kill me. it was so scary to get away from him, but i did.

Wyntre

I have been in this kinda relationship...and at first, when it's just minor...it's cute and almost flattering. But when the relationship gets older and possesiveness kicks in and it gets outa hand I hate it.

Chello

yep i was 15 and he was 18 and at first it was aight..i was young so it made me feel like he really cared about me. then after awile he started gettin' to damn controllin' by tellin' me i had to stay home and he was the only one able to go out, lost most of my homeboys and homegurls cuz he said i couldn't talk to them cuz i was payin' more attention to them instead of bein' always up on him,got to the point where we started fist boxin' all the damn time bein' pregnent and had miscarriages cuz of him bein' so damn controllin' and i would disagree on what he wanted, couple of times he almost stabbed me wit a knife and a screwdriver with jj sittin' right next to me, i hated it and don't ever want to go threw that type of relationship again' or jj go threw it. i hate a guy that's even a lil jealous. to me it's like once they show they jealous it's goin' to lead to me not havin' a life or even think about i'm wit the perfect guy

BrazilianMami

Chello I totally understand where you coming from. See that's why I like being bi. If I find a nice guy or girl I still win. Jealous guys can get dangerous, like what Chello went through, jealous girls are just annoying as hell, ask you who you talk to, when you last time you talk to them, last time you seen them, just more and more questions. makes me want to slap the damn bitch to shut her up.

Hsoolien

Hmm the score here to date seems to be opposite of the way I have observed in woman, see any gorl I know in the realtionships like hat you are all describing are like a pig in shit, they love it, and the ones that are not are waiting for such a realtionship

Nina

Jealous people are just pains. Always asking where you've been and stuff. They always have to know everything you doing, everyone you talk to and see. Pick fights over the smallest things that don't really matter.

Jenny

OK here's my problem with most of them.
They can go out with their friends and stuff and its ok.
If you even think about going out with your friends without them they get all attitude about it. Its ok for them but not for you. GRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!!!!!!!

Kittykat

right on jenny. i feel u on that one.

Hsoolien

So if you all believe this then why not practice what you preach instad of being with these jealouse possesive assholes, you all fucking know you want/love it's about fucking time you admit it instead of stringing those of us who are not along like you all fucking do.


Woman want someone caring attentive and nice like I want a kick in the balls, you all really wnat some fuck that will beat you as soon a s kiss you.. You say otherwise, well untill I meet such in real life (which we all know will never happen) I refuse to believe.

crobar

Huh, I don't have any of these problems anymore. Communication is the key to a good relationship. Oh, and good blow jobs! lol@Hsoo

Hsoolien

You bastard, your aiding in the degaredation of females, don't they do it to themselves enough as it is...?

(that's half serious BTW )

CrimsonShadow78

Communication doesn't work with someone who is extremly jealous/possessive. They are just thinking for themselves, no matter how they phrase any of it. They may say they are thinking of you, but when they start getting to the point where it just gets so totally agrivating, its just not worth it. I may not even wait that long next time. I don't like jealousness. I don't have any whatsoever. its just best to end the relationship because they will never understand.


Sorry I am still a little pissed over a previous relationship

crobar

That is why you get out of that situation. I could go on about this for a long time playing psychologist. But, I'll spare you all.